Maritza Ramos, center, the widow of Officer Rafael Ramos, holds an American flag while with her two sons, Justin Ramos, left, a student at Bowdoin College, and Jaden Ramos. Said New York Mayor Bill de Blasio: “All of this city is grieving and grieving for so many reasons. But the most personal is that we’ve lost such a good man, and the family is in such pain.”