December 9, 2012

Take a trip down 'Abbey' road

Borrow decor cues from the wildly popular PBS period drama 'Downton Abbey' for a party or a more permanent look.

By LAURA K. LLOYD The Kansas City Star

KANSAS CITY, Mo. - Americans like their Brits to be snobs, rich and veddy, veddy proper -- or at least they like their PBS British costume dramas that way.

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Elizabeth McGovern (center), who plays Cora Crawley, in an elegant upstairs dining scene from “Downton Abbey.”

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Maggie Smith and Hugh Bonneville, the Dowager Countess and Earl of Grantham respectively, “at table” in another scene from the show. American fans of the PBS series will be able to imitate this marvelously styled fantasy of British life when a company called Knockout Licensing launches multiple brands that seek to replicate the look of “Downton” in North American homes.

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EVEN IF YOU don't have a "Downton Abbey" watch party, keep proper etiquette in mind.

CATHY COREY has taught manners to thousands of schoolchildren, as well as college and law students, for more than 19 years through the National League of Junior Cotillions, a national franchise (though she recently sold hers).

Never begin the meal until everyone has been served; the hostess will be the first to begin eating.

Dinner rolls are to be broken in half; then a bite-size piece is again broken off, buttered and eaten. Your knife should never touch the bread, except to add the butter.

The resting position of your utensils is across the top of the plate - do not "build a bridge" by resting knives or forks on the lip of the plate and then leaning them on the table.

Once a utensil has been used, it is never placed back on the linens. It must rest on plates or saucers.

Your drinking glasses are always positioned near the top of your dinner knife. Even if you are left-handed, the glass should be placed to the right after every sip.

The dinner napkin is folded into a rectangle, resting on your lap with the fold toward your stomach. It is never tucked into one's collar, unless one is eating lobster.

The salt and pepper shakers are always passed together, even if the request to pass was for only one of them. Like a bride and groom, they never take separate vacations!

The gentlemen should always rise when a lady approaches or leaves the table.

One always passes to the right with one's left hand (crossing over the front of your body), to shorten the range of motion. The person accepting the pass takes it in his/her right hand, then changes to the left hand when passing.

When finished with the meal, one should place the used napkin to the left of the place setting -- never wadded up on the top of dirty dishes.




Crystal goblets

Refined wood

Embroidered linen

Silver candlesticks



Simple glassware

Rustic wood

Unembellished linen

Oil lanterns

"Downton Abbey" has been delivering the goods for two seasons.

Ardent fans of the highly popular, Emmy Award-winning drama must wait until darkest winter for Season 3 to begin -- Jan. 6 to be exact.

The new season has been airing in the U.K. since September, so desperate American fans can find spoilers on the Internet. But who wants to sacrifice the fun of watching Shirley MacLaine and Maggie Smith face off? Or to forgo the magic of Matthew and Lady Mary Crawley's wedding set against the backdrop of the biggest character in the show, Downton Abbey itself, also known as Highclere Castle in Hampshire, England?

Like the last huge PBS success teeming with great rooms and the vagaries of the British class system -- "Brideshead Revisited" in 1982 -- "Downton Abbey" features a magnificent house that influences the destinies of every character. Their roles, aristocrat or servant, are played out in the rooms where they live -- "upstairs" boudoirs and opulent sitting rooms or "downstairs" scullery, pantries and starkly furnished bedrooms. Habitation determines the clothes they wear as well: velvet evening gown and serious diamonds or crisp white shirt and simple black uniform.

As viewers, it is hard not to want a bit of the glamour of the aristocrats and the drama of the servants to rub off on us. While waiting to feed our addiction for "Downton," we may hanker for a change from the relentlessly casual style of America, where entertaining often means little more than a flaming fire pit on the patio and plenty of craft beer on hand (not that that isn't fun, too).

American fans will be able to imitate this marvelously styled fantasy of British life when a company called Knockout Licensing launches multiple brands that seek to replicate to look of "Downton" in North America: bedding and bath, home furnishings and decor, housewares, kitchenware and apparel.

Who knows what Knockout will offer? Perhaps replicas of hunting prints, worn Oriental rugs, faded cabbage-rose chintzes, Staffordshire dogs, Blue Willow china and leather-bound books -- the tried-and-true elements of English country house design. These details can be lovely, even in an American house with a two-door garage and the total square footage of the drawing room and dining room of a real country house in the British Isles.


Meanwhile, why not incorporate a touch of "Downton's" elegance into your 21st century life? Plan a dinner party that takes the formality quotient up a notch. If nothing else, the preparations can help pass the time until the show returns. If you have a DVR, you could have people over on the Sunday night that Season 3 begins and have a leisurely "Downton-esque" dinner before you watch.

The key to realistically adding a little "Downton" to your life is to keep the focus on the dining room, where so much of the delicious action takes place. Don't take any of this too seriously: No footmen are required and finger bowls are definitely passe. But there is a way to have fun getting dressed up and putting together a well-appointed table.

Your "Downton" theme can best be executed using what is called "tabletop" in interior design parlance: all the china, crystal, chargers, napkins, tablecloths, candles, centerpieces, demitasse cups and place cards that make a dining-room table look like the most delicious eye candy. Many venues offer this merchandise, from Target to furniture purveyors to linen stores.

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Capturing the aura of Downton Abbey
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Bedding and bath accessories, home furnishings and decor, housewares, kitchenware and apparel that mimic the “Downton Abbey” aesthetic are headed to American retailers.

Capturing the aura of Downton Abbey
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Having a “Downton” viewing party? To pull off a “downstairs” look, simple white china and polished wood will do nicely.


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