December 11, 2013

At memorial service, a final moment of unity for Nelson Mandela

World leaders join ordinary South Africans to honor the anti-apartheid icon.

By Sudarsan Raghavan
The Washington Post

SOWETO, South Africa — In any other life, their paths might never have crossed. But on Tuesday, the most powerful people in the world sat with some of the least powerful – men, women and children struggling to survive – and for one rainy afternoon they shared something in common: their adoration for Nelson Mandela.

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People cheer as President Obama speaks at FNB Stadium in Soweto, South Africa, on Tuesday during the national memorial service for Nelson Mandela.


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Together they remembered the anti-apartheid icon, in a boisterous ceremony at a soccer stadium in an emotional place – Soweto – where the challenges of black South Africans helped bring down white minority rule nearly 20 years ago. Together they sang and clapped, memorializing Mandela as a racial healer, a figure so humble and transcendent that he felt comfortable with rich and poor, young and old, black and white.

“Over 30 years ago, while still a student, I learned of Mandela and the struggles in this land,” President Obama said in his eulogy at the stadium, where tens of thousands endured a steady rain. “It stirred something in me. It woke me up to my responsibilities – to others, and to myself – and set me on an improbable journey that finds me here today. ... He speaks to what is best inside us.”

Nomathemba Mapengeza, 55, a nurse from Soweto, said she, too, had learned to be a better person, to set aside the hatred that she felt for the whites who subjugated her and her ancestors, and to reconcile with her nation’s ugly past.

“He taught us to love one another,” said Mapengeza, swaying to the music of a South African choir on the field. Moments later, a group of youths, black and white, marched by her, chanting, “Mandela, yo. Mandela, yo.” Mapengeza began chanting, too.

The four-hour service was filled with emotional tributes and joyous song. The rich crowded with the poor, children with the elderly, all to remember Mandela, who died Thursday at age 95.

“Only Mandela can bring together people of different races, cultures, even religions,” said Nkuli Simelane, 30, a tour guide. “He didn’t want blacks to be on one side and the rich on one side. He wanted everyone to be together.”

Gen. Thanduxolo Mandela, a family member, echoed those sentiments in his eulogy. “In his lifetime, Madiba mingled with kings, queens and presidents. At the core, he was a man of the people. A simple man,” said the general, referring to Mandela by his Xhosa clan name. “I am sure Madiba is smiling from above as he looks down at the multitude of diversity gathered here, for this is what he strove for – the equality of man, the brotherhood of humanity.”

Many in the stadium carried umbrellas and South African flags, or were draped in the green, yellow and black colors of the ruling African National Congress. Some blew plastic horns known as vuvuzelas. Others unfurled large banners showing Mandela’s face. Two giant television screens alternated between showing images of Mandela and the dancing crowds.

Although the voices of the crowd seemed to fill the stadium, many of the uncovered seating areas remained empty, perhaps because of the downpour. The covered sections were filled. Tuesday’s ceremony included prayers by leaders of several faiths and remarks by four of Mandela’s 18 grandchildren.

“You have lived a beautiful life. You bequeathed us a better world than the one you were born in,” Nkosazana Dlamini Zuma, chair of the African Union Commission, said in her eulogy. “We thank you for having mentored us.”

More than 90 heads of state and governments attended the ceremony at the First National Bank Stadium, more than those who attended the 2005 funeral of Pope John Paul II. The list of dignitaries included former U.S. presidents George W. Bush, Bill Clinton and Jimmy Carter. Many African leaders also came. Other leaders arrived from as far away as Afghanistan, Australia and Scandinavia. Scores of police were stationed outside and inside, inspecting bags and keeping watch.

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