FOXBOROUGH, Mass. – Chad Ochocinco wants to get that look from Tom Brady, that quick glance down the line of scrimmage from quarterback to receiver that sends along silent instructions.

It’s a look that comes with experience together, with Brady’s confidence that Ochocinco will figure out — and follow — those instructions.

“That look,” said Ochocinco, a New England Patriot for just five weeks, “that look, man, is special and I’ve seen him do it a couple of times before I was even here. You know, that’s a deadly combination. It’s a great weapon to have to not give the defense any hint of what’s going on.”

That connection takes time to develop. The most important work is done in practice.

So Brady and Ochocinco may not get to use it, if they play at all, in New England’s final exhibition game tonight against the New York Giants. But Ochocinco isn’t frustrated that he’s caught just two passes during the preseason.

“Frustration’s a waste of time,” he said. “It’s a waste of energy.”

Ochocinco spent the past 10 years with the Cincinnati Bengals, his only NFL team before being traded on July 28. He’s confident he’ll surprise people who thought the learning process would drag on and hold him back during the regular season.

“I’ll be there a lot faster than when I’m supposed to be, especially with as much verbiage as I’ve had to learn in such a short period of time,” he said. “The transition has been extremely good.”

Brady, an expert at the offense he’s led since 2001, seems pleased with his new receiver.

“We communicate quite a bit,” Brady said. “That’s what it takes. He hasn’t had the luxury of an offseason program that a lot of guys get and so we’re trying to really cram a lot of stuff in, but he’s very receptive to it.

“He’s very competitive. He wants to do the right thing.”

The routes receivers run for New England and Cincinnati are similar, but the offensive communication is different, Patriots Coach Bill Belichick said.

“I can’t really speak in specifics because I wasn’t in Cincinnati,” he said, “but it really doesn’t matter. Every player that has come onto this team has come on from a different system, so they have had to learn it and adapt to it, whether they’re rookies or veterans. Nobody is born here. They all come here from somewhere, so they have to learn it.”

On a scale of 1 to 10, Ochocinco said he’s at about a 7 on simply reacting without thinking where to run.

“I’m able to go out right now and react as soon as I hear (Brady) call something,” he said, “but I’m still not set in that comfort zone to where I can just be me. … Let’s be realistic. This is the highest level of football and this is not easy.”

The Patriots (2-1) are coming off a 34-10 loss at Detroit Saturday night after dominating their first two exhibition opponents, the Jacksonville Jaguars and the Tampa Bay Buccaneers.

The Giants (1-2) had just two days between Monday night’s 17-3 loss to the New York Jets — delayed two days because of Hurricane Irene — and tonight’s game.

“We have been doing a great job in New York of doing midstream adjusting,” Giants cornerback Corey Webster said. “We had a couple of times last year where we had some traveling arrangements and we got out there and did a great job adjusting to them, so if we have to do it, I don’t think it will be a problem.”

First-stringers are expected to play little or not at all against the Patriots.

Quarterback Eli Manning is going into his third season with Hakeem Nicks and fourth with Mario Manningham, his top two receivers.

“Mario has really played well in the preseason games and he stepped up his understanding of the offense and his role,” Manning said. “And Hakeem, the same thing. He knows what he’s doing. Those guys are solid.”

Ochocinco’s knowledge of the Patriots’ offense keeps getting better with a teacher as demanding as Brady.

“I ask him to be (demanding),” Ochocinco said. “Tom is on the field. He sees the field the way I do. My eyes have to be his eyes and my ears have to be his ears, and the faster Tom and I get on that same page the smoother it’s going to go, man. It’s like a married couple.”

The marriage between the all-business Patriots, led by the no-nonsense Belichick, and the fun-loving Ochocinco, with his colorful comments, seems like an odd coupling.

“I’m just different. I’m somewhat against the grain, just a bit odd,” Ochocinco said. “Opposites attract. … Therefore, I’ll mesh well here with my teammates (and) the coaches.”