As summer draws to a close in our corner of the world, I see youth teams beginning to practice various fall sports in the fields around town. My youth coaching days are behind me, but from my perspective at Spurwink, I often think about how youth with developmental or behavioral disabilities might participate in, and benefit from, youth sports. If you have or know a child with disabilities, here are a few thoughts.

• Follow the child’s interests. It is the exceptional case where a child comes to a sport without interest and actually develops that interest through participation. This is even less likely in children with a disability, who have additional challenges to manage.

In between games and team practices, it’s important for parents of youngsters with disabilities to spend a few minutes most days reviewing and practicing their skills. The Associated Press

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Al Durgin, LCSW, is vice president of quality improvement and outcomes at Spurwink Services in Portland.

Youth sports are great for social development and exercise, but they are not the only avenues for either. If a child with a developmental disability is enthusiastic about basketball, youth basketball can be a great adventure. If that child is not interested in lacrosse, lacrosse is unlikely to be a positive venture.

• Do a little risk assessment. Think beforehand whether a particular athletic experience is likely to be a success or a failure for the child. There are ample opportunities for failure in the life of a disabled youth; there is no need to create them.

Think about the particular sport and whether it is a match. For example, while my favorite sports are softball and baseball, I find these to be a poor match for a child with attentional difficulties. There is just too much downtime – time when someone else is batting or time between pitches. For those youth, soccer or basketball or other sports with continual action are more likely to hold their attention.

In addition, some sports have significant risk associated with inattention. Getting hit with a baseball can cause serious damage, as can running on the street without attending to vehicles. No assessment will account for every possible risk, but some forethought is a must.

• If you decide that your child’s interest level is sufficient and the chance of success is present, then consider volunteering to help with coaching or at least with practice. The fact is that most youth coaches are minimally trained volunteers who have little experience with youth who have special needs.

When I was a coach, I was volunteering 10 to 15 hours a week on top of a full workweek. I loved it, but if I had been a plumber or a nurse or a graphic designer instead of a social worker, I might have thought that I just didn’t have time to learn how to integrate a child with a disability into my team.

So be a partner. Be a parent or mentor who gently teaches the other adults what they need to know about your child while adding value to the experience for all the kids.

• Practice outside of team practices. Whether the skill is athletic (kick the ball, catch the ball, hit the ball, shoot the ball, etc.) or social (cheering for a teammate, sharing attention, good sportsmanship, etc.), spend a few minutes most days reviewing and practicing. Don’t overdo it. In my experience, the average 10-year-old is good for 20 minutes practicing an athletic skill he is good at, 10 minutes on a skill he is not particularly good at and three minutes on a social skill.

• Remember the goal. The goal should be developing competency in the social realm.

This includes developing skills for delaying gratification, for developing attention, for relationships, for frustration management, for sportsmanship, etc. Success in the social realm, of course, means different things to different youth, particularly youth with disabilities.

Most importantly, though, keep your eye on the ball. It’s not the athletic skills themselves that count the most. For almost all of us, the athletic skills of our youth are lost somewhere along the road through adulthood, but the capacity to be part of a team endures for a lifetime.

For interested children, youth sports can be an invaluable experience. This is true of youth with disabilities, too, if the supports are right and the purpose is clear.

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