Can I do anything meaningful, helpful?
At age 56, I am raising a child again. She is age 7.
I am a full-time, stay-at-home mom and homemaker. It is my job to take care of my child’s basic needs, such as roof, food, clothes, health care.
But since I am her mother, and not her babysitter, it is also my responsibility to show and teach her kindness, tolerance, self-control, critical thinking. Is it enough?
Am I doing my part to make the world a better place? To stand up against injustice?
I was an active member of the PTA. I was a voting delegate to conventions for different organizations. I chaired committees and held office in good-works charities and municipal boards. I testified before a state Senate committee.
I wrote three ordinances, currently on the books. I attended peaceful protests. I wrote letters to the editor. Various issues. Many places. Different times.
My current circumstances limit my ability and desire to join with activists, attend meetings, march.
But I can tell my young child that hate is always wrong.
By my own behavior, I can show her that I am not a racist or a sexist or a bigot of any stripe.
I can tell her as many times that I tell her to look both ways before crossing the street that bigotry is wrong; intolerance is wrong; hate is wrong.
Is it enough?
Ruth Fenton
Jonesport
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