I am so tired of all the reports of unwanted sexual advances.

What happened to dealing with it firmly and on the spot, like my old neighbor did when she answered a knock on the door to find a man exposing himself? She told him, “You can put that away. It’s not the first I’ve seen, and it’s not the best,” and shut the door.

I understand it’s wrong when people are put in a compromising position, but we need to act like adults and handle it without running to the press.

Milly Spence

Saco