DEAR ABBY: I’m writing to brag about my boyfriend. He’s a semi-professional alligator wrestler and super brave. It’s a tough job and it takes him away from home a lot. It’s also a very dangerous job. He often comes home with bite marks all over his neck and shoulders, and scratches on his back.
Want to know something weird about alligators? Their natural odor smells a lot like perfume. When my beau gets back from a tournament, he often reeks of it. The first time I smelled it on him, I was worried. But after he explained it to me, it made perfect sense. (Just another one of life’s coincidences, I guess.)
We’re so happy together. We have four beautiful children, and he promises we’ll get married soon — right after the next tournament. I know you get lots of letters about bad relationships, so I thought I’d let you hear about a good one.
— GATOR GIRL
IN FLORIDA
DEAR GATOR GIRL: That’s a good one, all right. You may have thought you smelled perfume, but I smell a rat. Be glad your boyfriend doesn’t wrestle cougars because I hear they wear indelible lipstick.
DEAR ABBY: A teacher at our high school took some time off to get a breast augmentation. Before she left, she told the class she was having her tonsils out. When she returned to the classroom with a larger chest, one of the students cracked, “Nice tonsils!” Of course, the class roared. What do you think about this?
— GEORGE IN
SOUTH CAROLINA
DEAR GEORGE: I think that unless her students pay more attention to what she’s teaching and less to her chest, they may be earning double D’s. And now … back to work: DEAR ABBY: When does an extramarital affair actually start? Is it when the two parties involved do the mattress mambo, their first kiss, or is it sooner?
— CLUELESS WIFE
IN CANADA
DEAR CLUELESS: A love affair involves more than having sex. An extramarital affair begins as soon as a man or woman starts sneaking around and lying to his or her mate.
DEAR ABBY: Please settle an argument my ex-husband and I still have. Over the course of our marriage, we had problems. One night we had a nasty spat, after which he moved out and never returned. He claims I should have asked him to move back in. My response has always been that he chose to leave, so I shouldn’t have had to beg him to come back. Your opinion, please?
— WONDERING IN
CRYSTAL LAKE, ILL.
DEAR WONDERING: In my opinion, you and your exhusband should stop arguing because after your divorce became final, the question became moot.
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