Tuesday, December 10, 2013
I'm writing to express my displeasure with the University of Maine's decision to fire Tim Whitehead and your paper's April 10 headline, "Fired UMaine coach failed to meet goals."
The University of Maine made a mistake by firing hockey coach Tim Whitehead, a reader says.
2013 Press Herald File Photo/Gordon Chibroski
Really? What should the goals of a program be? Tim was described as "a very decent man," someone who "coached with tremendous integrity" and "nothing but a gentleman." No videos of him abusing players, no sex or recruiting scandals, and excellent academic performance by players.
(Full disclosure -- Tim is my cousin, and these are my words.)
As recently as 2012, Tim coached the Bears to the NCAAs. After an abysmal start this season (bye-bye, Mike Mangene; hello, nine freshmen, goalie change), the team made the Hockey East playoffs.
In this topsy-turvy Hockey East season, their second-half record compared favorably. They kept the University of New Hampshire from home ice advantage and scared the skates off UMass Lowell (coached by Norm Bazin, who played and coached under Tim).
In this age of "one and done," it's become increasingly difficult to get and "hold" prize recruits. Most of HE, including UNH, is within "Greater Boston," with Maine and Vermont long bus rides away. Alfond is a great old barn, but good seats are $50 (a fun night at the casino).
Tim was excited about next year's recruits, so the new coach may have some success -- but a sustained run at the top? Jim Montgomery chose Denver over Orono in a heartbeat. To paraphrase Rick Pitino, Shawn Walsh and Paul Kariya aren't walking through that door.
Tim Whitehead a failure? I wish the Black Bears well, but I hope the school and its fans remember Tim with gratitude and respect. For 12 years, he bled Black Bear blue.
As I wrote to him, "You have been, are and will be a great coach, but more than that, you are a great man." Certainly not a failure.
Boston tragedy spotlights strength of region, nation
It's taken a few days to really digest what happened April 15, especially given the confusion that followed.
It makes me sad to think this world has become such a dark and hateful place that we are forced to deal with situations like the bombing April 15.
What gives me hope are the stories that follow of strangers helping strangers with little hesitation, of people around the country coming together no matter how far, to support people they've never met and a region they may have never visited, the resilience of all those runners affected by what happened April 15 and their resolve to not let some cowards deter them from what they love to do.
That's what being an American is all about. That's what being a Northeasterner is all about.
Life isn't easy, but what gets you by are the people you can lean on when times are tough, the community that rises up to support each other in times of need. That's what being a human being is all about.
While it brings a tear to my eye thinking about what transpired April 15, it also brings a smile to my face and a tremendous sense of pride to see the reaction from the region and the people across the country.
Hate only wins when good people give up and stop trying to lift each other up. It's nice to see so many who continue to fight that battle on a daily basis.
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