Re: “Legal obstacles could sink Bar Harbor’s initiative to limit cruise ship passengers” (July 27, Page A1):

I was a bit taken aback by Charles Sidman’s comment that “the cruise ship industry is like a cancer.” I understand there is the temptation to reflexively indulge in hyperbole when one feels strongly about a situation. But engaging in shock value statements can be more than inaccurate. They can be callous and harmful.

Of late, I have met a number of folks dealing with cancer. One gentleman is seeking assistance for his partner, who is finding it challenging to afford her medications. Another gentleman has questions about eligibility for the federal Family Leave Act and Maine’s Family Leave requirement as his spouse endures the ordeal of advanced cancer. Yet another gentleman related how he must fight tooth and nail with his insurance company for every treatment prescribed by his doctors to address his advanced case of prostate cancer.

Thirty-one years ago, at 35, I had my own cancer experience. It could be summed up in one word: humiliating. The indignities just seemed to be unending. What helped me through were comprehensive insurance coverage, outstanding health care professionals and the support of family, friends and folks with whom I was not familiar but who were empathetic, nonetheless. Luck also played a role.

One thing we can all do to assist those dealing with cancer is to be mindful and take care in our use of the term. To do so is to show respect for the fortitude they must muster to get through each day.

Joe Wagner
Lyman

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